Jill's Top 10 Dessert Recipess
This book is dedicated to everyone who took the time to teach me how to bake. Especially to my mom, Emily Neilson, who always made the effort to make us homemade desserts (even though her eight children could devour a batch of cookies in seconds). She encouraged all of us to join her while she was baking, along with her sisters, husband, dad, neighbours, and anyone who was willing to help and make it a party.
Neilson Family
Back: Bryan, Norma, Judy, Karen, Mark Front: Jane, Emily, Jill
After 30 years as Administrative Assistant to seven Windsor Fire Chiefs, Jill Kanwischer retired in 2021 and happily swapped office life for aprons, volunteer work, and a whole lot of fun.
A proud mom to Karl, Erik, and Alek, she’s now baking her way through her sunset years with her spouse, Daryl Hall, in Amherstburg, Ontario.
At the Amherstburg Food and Fellowship Mission, Jill helps however she can—office work, grant writing, coordinating volunteers, food prep, cleaning, and whatever else needs doing. For her, feeding people, caring for others, and strengthening her community is the perfect recipe for a meaningful life.
In the Neilson household, the kitchen was not typically Dad’s domain—except for a few cherished specialties that he made entirely his own. Among them, Ralph Neilson’s oatmeal crisp cookies stood out as a warm, familiar favourite that carried with it the quiet joy of his presence in the kitchen.
Years later, the recipe continues to ripple through the generations. Most recently, Dad’s legacy found new hands in the kitchen: his great-granddaughters. With ingredients lovingly prepared by their grandmother Karen, the little girls stirred, scooped, and shaped the very cookies their great-grandfather once made, this time as a surprise for their dad—Shawn Taylor—on Father’s Day.
It was a full-circle moment. The same recipe that once connected Ralph to his children was now connecting his great-grandchildren to theirs. Hands a little smaller, hearts just as big.
This oatmeal crisp cookie recipe is more than just a sweet treat. It’s a memory, a tradition, and a reminder that sometimes the simplest recipes are the ones that carry the most love.
45 minutes
15 min + 20 min chill time
10 minutes
24 cookies
This recipe always makes me smile because I can still picture my mom and dad making it together in the kitchen. Back then, mixing the dough by hand was a real workout, so they would take turns kneading.
The recipe came from our longtime Scottish neighbour (Mrs. McWhinnie) and quickly became a treasured family favourite. Every time I make it now—by hand, the right way—I think of those special kitchen moments and where it all began.
1 hr 20 min
1 hour or more
20 minutes or less
Depends on your cookie cutter size
You can make this recipe completely by hand kneading if you have the strength and patience. Just like the instructions above, start by kneading the sugar and butter until well creamed together before you start to gradually add in the flour. You will know it's done when the dough doesn't crack as you are kneading it. Good luck!
I went searching for a chocolate chip cookie recipe that could somehow outshine my mom’s—the ones that vanished from the freezer, leaving behind empty containers and a lot of quiet guilt because they were just that good.
It felt almost impossible to top something so loved, but then I found this salted chocolate chunk version online and decided to try. The first batch came out rich, gooey, with that perfect hint of salt—and just like that, they disappeared just as fast. Now, somehow, this is the recipe everyone asks me for, and I can’t help but smile and say, “Sorry, Mom.” This recipe matters because it carries on our family’s love of irresistible cookies with a new twist.
47 minutes
20 minutes + 20 minutes in fridge
6 - 7 minutes
24 cookies (depending on scoop size)
These cookies were born out of Mission magic. One day, faced with a mountain of peanut butter nearing its expiry, I turned to the internet and found this gem on the Big Man’s World site TheBigMansWorldSite. Just four ingredients—peanut butter, brown sugar, eggs, and chocolate chips—and no flour in sight! They're ridiculously easy, irresistibly tasty, and a huge hit with our gluten-free clients. Now they’re a go-to whenever we need a sweet treat that’s simple, satisfying, and made from whatever’s on hand. Proof that a little pantry problem can turn into a cookie triumph!
25 minutes
13 minutes
12 minutes
12 cookies
To store - Keep in an airtight container at room temperature for 4-5 days or in the fridge for up to 2 weeks.
To Freeze - Place the cookies in a freezer bag and freeze for up to 6 months.
Some of my sisters have a very special talent: they love eating baked goods but somehow develop amnesia the moment an oven needs to be turned on. So instead, they send me recipes like I’m their personal bakery. I’ll get messages like, “You should make this,” which is sister-code for “I would like to eat this soon.”
This particular recipe came from my sister Norma, and she really outdid herself this time. I remember looking at it thinking, “Alright, let’s see if this is worth the hype,” but the second it came out of the oven, I knew she’d struck gold. It disappeared faster than I could even pretend to save some for later. Now, of course, everyone expects me to make it again—because heaven forbid they bake it themselves.
1 hour, 6 minutes
20 minutes
46 minutes
24+ bars
Crust & Topping:
Filling:
Easter is a time for celebration, and what better way to celebrate than with carrot cake cupcakes—perfect for the Easter Bunny, fun to make, and my kids’ absolute favourite! These cupcakes are a staple in our home during April, bringing joy and delicious flavour to the holiday.
Made without nuts (since my boys are allergic), these cupcakes are moist, spiced just right, and topped with a rich cream cheese frosting—because, let’s be honest, no self-respecting carrot cake should be without it!
Baking these treats has become a cherished Easter tradition in our family, filling our kitchen with warmth and the sweet scent of cinnamon and carrots. Whether you’re making them for kids, guests, or just for yourself, these cupcakes are sure to bring a little extra joy to your Easter celebrations. So preheat that oven, grab your whisk, and enjoy a festive treat that’s as fun to make as it is to eat!
1 hr 40 min
60 minutes + 60 minutes cooling time
20 minutes
12 - 16
Cupcakes:
Cupcakes:
Frosting:
I found this recipe while trying to use up the pumpkin puree my sister Jane made from the sugar pumpkins in her garden, and it instantly became a favourite.
I love thinking about Jane baking it when her granddaughter Delilah came to visit from Calgary, the two of them laughing in the kitchen and turning garden ingredients into something delicious together.
There’s something extra fun about knowing the pumpkin came straight from her backyard, making every bite feel homemade, and full of happy family memories.
2 hours, 45 minutes
30 min + 1 hour cooling + 1 hour chilling
13-15 minutes
Not Mentioned
Cake:
Filling:
This memory goes back to my days working at Windsor Fire & Rescue Services. One of my colleagues made a vegan chocolate cake for the birthday of Emily, our Emergency Planning Officer. I think the recipe came from the internet, but it didn’t matter — the cake was rich, chocolatey, and absolutely delicious.
Even non-vegans couldn’t resist sneaking a slice! Every bite reminds me of the camaraderie at the station and the little celebrations that brightened our busy days.
This chocolate cake remains one of my favourite treats and a sweet reminder of Emily’s birthday at the fire hall.
2 hours
30 minutes + 1 hour to cool
30 - 35 minutes
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Cake:
Chocolate Buttercream Frosting:
Cake:
Chocolate Buttercream Frosting:
For cupcakes, fill liners half full and bake for 20-25 minutes. The whole recipe will yield approximately 24 cupcakes. Double the recipe to make a 4 layer cake, or cut in half to make a 1 layer round cake. You can also make a bundt cake, simply bake for 45 minutes. Or a 9 x 13 inch cake, baking for about 35-40 minutes. Don't like a lot of frosting? Cut the frosting ingredients in half. The recipe as written makes enough for thick layers of frosting. Nut allergy? You may substitute soy milk or another milk for the almond milk, any non-dairy milk will work here. No applesauce? Substitute 2 flax eggs (2 tbs ground flax + 5 tbs water), whipped aquafaba or another egg replacer such as Bob's Red Mill (2 eggs worth).
This is one of my son Karl’s favourite desserts—and one of mine too. It’s not the quickest to make, and I sometimes wish I’d chosen something simpler, but the first bite always makes it worth it.
If you’re short on time, you can use a store-bought angel food cake and build from there—it still brings the same smiles.
One of my favourite memories with this recipe was making a pink version for a colour-themed Ladies Dinner night. Everything matched—from the food to the outfits—and it was an evening full of laughter, friendship, and delicious treats.
All damn day
looooong time
35 - 40 minutes
8-10 slices
Cake:
Frosting:
Cake:
Filling:
Frosting:
This cheesecake started as a version of my mom’s recipe, and over the years I’ve made it my own. I love how easy and versatile it is—my favourite way is to use fresh fruit, but you can also top it with candy bars, lemon curd, ganache, or whatever suits the occasion.
It has become my go to recipe to make for the Amherstburg Food and Fellowship Mission because I can prepare it in different ways to match so many preferences, helping everyone feel included and cared for.
Seeing it become such a fan favourite makes me smile, knowing it began with my mom and now brings joy to so many others.
30 minutes
30 minutes
Not Mentioned
6 glasses or dessert dishes
Crust:
Cheesecake Filling:
Crust:
Cheesecake Filling:
Feel free to get creative with different toppings. You may want to leave out the lemon zest in your filling if you are using candy bar toppings.
I love to make these individually in the containers in the photo (Amazon) for the Amherstburg Mission. To have the correct quantities; the crust quantity stays the same, but I double the cheesecake. For best results put the cheesecake in a piping bag and cut off the end (no tip required). Do a layer of cheesecake, then sprinkle a rounded teaspoons of crumbs mixture, layer of fruit, repeat.
This is a collection of my favourite recipes gathered from 1989 to 2022.
Jill's Top 10 Dessert Recipess
Jill Kanwischer
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